WARNING: The following contains major spoilers.

Just days after the premiere ofThe Bachelorette, winnerGarrett Yrigoyenwas immersed in a social media firestorm.

News broke that Yrigoyen, 29, who was then secretlynewly engagedtoBecca Kufrin, had previously liked a series ofhighly inflammatory Instagram posts, including some that were racist and homophobic.

“It was tough,” Yrigoyen tells PEOPLE exclusively of the public outcry and fans of the show labeling him a bigot and worse. “I didn’t mean to offend anyone.”

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“Just because I liked it, doesn’t necessarily mean that I supported it,” he says in this week’s issue of PEOPLE, on stands Friday. “I was raised in a very open-minded family that was accepting to everybody. We’re very non-judgmental. I’m genuinely sincere.”

When the posts were uncovered, Kufrin wasquick to defendYrigoyen.

“People have been saying really terrible things about [Garrett], but that’s not who he is,” she says now. “At his core, he’s a good guy. We’ve all made mistakes and done things that aren’t perfect. But all I could ask for is somebody who owns up to what they’ve done and who apologizes and wants to grow. And that’s what he’s done.”

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And when it comes to their relationship, Yrigoyen gives credit to a strong foundation for their ability to get past the hard times.

“We started a foundation of being honest and open and transparent,” he says. “Anything that’s come about, or just dealing with anything, that’s how we address it — head on. It makes our relationship so much stronger, and we continue to grow together.”

source: people.com